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Welcome to Chaalo Kaaj Kariye!
The Parsi and Zorastrian Matrimonial Website.
Chaalo Kaaj Kariye!
For those who belong to the non Gujarati speaking community, Kaaj
means Matchmaking and the full meaning is - Lets go ahead and match
our mates!
Who wants to get married?
It is a natural instinct of humans to love and get
loved and what better way than the time tested tradition of marriage
with a faithful partner.
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A Wedding
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Let’s Romance the practical way.
Let’s face it, most of us consider ourselves to be
of GenNxt but are shy, afraid of rejection and need the support of
Pappa and Momma to find a mate.
But Pappa and Momma are busy and still consider you a growing up
child, as “Apro Dikro to ajun nallo che” or “Apri Dikri”. (Our son /
daughter is still a baby, too young to get married)
And then there are some selfish parents who despite having married
themselves and enjoyed their youth, choose to restrain their children
and keep them unmarried to take care of them in their old age.
Unfortunately this happens a lot within our community, specially with
our young girls who are emotionally blackmailed by their parents.
And by the time you realize that you have grown up, you’ve already
crossed into the 30’s and lost the most youthful time of your life
and what could have been a Healthy relationship is lost forever! |
So how practical is an
Arranged marriage?
Does it really matter if your meeting is arranged and then fall
in love?
Let’s face it. A marriage which has been arranged has some inbuilt
safeguards.
The parents are in the loop so they are happy.
Hormones which often blind oneself to that wonderful feeling call Love
come up later, keeping your thought processes clear and objective.
And finally, it is statistically proven that an arranged marriage has a
much higher success rate that an instinctive marriage.
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How does it help to marry
within the community?
A lot has already been said about our dwindling population, etc., etc.
and the need to do something.
Let’s be frank, that’s the least of our worries at our age.
We want a partner with whom we can share every minute of our life.
Someone we can dream together with. Someone with whom we can Pray in
our Agiary. Someone who shares our values. Someone who will give us
children who look like us and carry our Persian names.
And who can be better than a fellow Zarthosti Bawa?
So what are you waiting
for…
Get going, say a small prayer, fill up up the form
and wait for your matches.
Go out, meet your matches, get married and enjoy Heavenly bliss!
Remember, God only helps those who helps themselves. |
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The Happy
Bride & Groom |
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